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Some of the boys and I tailgating at a Pats game in Foxboro (I'm on the left)
My first Christmas...
This woman purposely scratched a $30K car at an auto show to force her husband to buy it.
What a crazy biotch.
Crazy to think that a moment so quick can take a life away. 45 mph was how fast they were traveling...
He Makes Excuses To Call Or Text You
If your ex isn't over you, he obviously still wants to talk to you - but if he doesn't want you to know he's not over you, he'll try to be sneaky about it. He'll come up with excuses as to why he needs to talk, like asking random questions or trying to get your help with something. He'll probably do it pretty often and then once he's got you on the phone, he'll try to keep you there by being like, "how are you doing?" "What's going on?" ...stuff like that. If he were totally over you, he would be avoiding calling you.
He Started Dating Someone Else Right Away
The way some guys get over relationships is by entering into a rebound relationship right away. Of course, this isn't always true, but it is a lot of the time. It hurts you and it makes you feel like he's over you, but what could be happening is that he's lonely, misses you and is trying to replace you with someone else. You'll be able to tell if it's rebound if he still doesn't seem happy or tries to talk to you or see you still. Plus, rebounds usually end pretty quickly.
Or He Hasn't Dated Anyone Else In A Long Time
On the other hand, a guy who isn't over you might just not date anyone for a long time. I know a few guys who fall apart after breakups. They have no interest in talking to or seeing other girls. If he's been single for a while, there's a good chance he still hasn't moved on from you.
He Makes It A Point To Reach Out On Holidays
I knew my ex wasn't over me when, on my birthday, he called me early to say "happy birthday" AND stopped by my house to give me flowers. I knew it even more when he sent me a huge bouquet of flowers in the mail on Christmas Eve. Holidays can be a pretty lonely time, especially for people who are still mourning the loss of a relationship, so it could make him feel vulnerable enough to reach out to you.
You Somehow Run Into Him All The Time
If you mysteriously run into your ex in your favorite places all the time, it's probably not an accident. If he knows you always go to a particular place, he might start going there, hoping he's going to see you - then he can act like it's such a surprise. Or, if you put it on your Facebook that you're going to a certain place, he might decide to go there too to see you. You get it.
When He Sees You, He Doesn't Leave Your Side
Pay attention to how he acts when he runs into you or sees you. If he was over you, he would just say hi, how are you and go on his way. Or he would avoid you completely. If he's not over you, he'll stick around for as long as he can. He'll ask you lots of questions to keep the conversation going, he'll try to touch you, he'll laugh at your jokes and he'll generally seem pretty happy.
He Asks Your Friends About You
A huge sign that your ex isn't over you is if he asks people about you, especially your friends or family members. If he were over you, he honestly wouldn't care what you were up to. He definitely wouldn't ask people about you!
He Brings Up Things From The Past When You Were Dating
What does he say when you guys talk? If he always manages to bring up stuff from when you were dating, that's a warning sign. My ex who wasn't over me always managed to bring up happy memories of when we were in love and having fun. He obviously never talked about the fights we used to have or anything bad. If he's bringing up old memories, it's because he's thinking about them - and if he's thinking about them all the time, there's a reason.
His Facebook Statuses Are Usually Sad
I knew one ex wasn't over me when his Facebook statuses started getting pretty depressing. There were all these sad quotes and song lyrics about lost love and depression and all that. Guys don't just do that kind of thing for no reason.
He Stays In Touch With Your Family
It's one thing if your ex says a polite hello to your parents or siblings when he runs into them in public. It's another thing if he actively gets in touch with them through phone calls or online or whatever. When I'm over an ex, I basically cut off contact with his family because it's awkward and so would any guy. If he's still talking to your family, he's probably hoping it will win you over.
On Black Friday, 29-year-old Serge Vorobyov of Minneapolis, Minnesota decided to try to do something GENEROUS for Black Friday . . . instead of something crazy and selfish.
Serge took $1,000 in $1 bills, went to the fourth floor of the Mall of America . . . which is the largest mall in the U.S. . . . and THREW the money into the air while a choir was performing "Let It Snow" on the ground floor.
He says, quote, "I thought I would just spread some holiday cheer . . . pay it forward."
It could've turned into a RIOT for the money . . . but fortunately, it didn't. The polite people of Minnesota caught the money without fighting or killing each other.
The police still weren't happy and arrested him for disorderly conduct . . . since they said he COULD'VE caused a dangerous riot.
source - (CBS 4 - Minneapolis)